
COMING SOON.
And it's going to be SO good.
Prepare for an incredible marriage that just gets better.
Immersive
Conscious Marriage Prep
for dating, engaged and
just-married couples
Lots of people say, "Marriage is hard."
But that's because most don't have the relational skills necessary to make it easier, let alone baseline incredible.​​

And most premarital programs focus on compatibility through topics like values, kids, money and sex.
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Those conversations matter but they are not the foundation.
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Every topic, conversation and conflict is informed by something much deeper:
the way you relate.
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And relating is dictated by your nervous system states, relational patterns learned from childhood and the skill of repair.​
The fact is,
compatibility does not equal intimacy.
Relational skill does.
​This experience will go underneath all of the topics and impact the
bedrock of how you relate.

And with that foundation, you can have a marriage that is baseline incredible and gets better from there,
even through hard things.
This is not a boring, shallow,
check-the-box 'premarital program'.
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It’s a relational immersion.
No compatibility testing, surface-level communication tips or how to "divide chores fairly."
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Think pulling back the curtain.
Discovering the intricacies of your particular dynamics.
Doing work at the deepest level and evolving into relational wizards.
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We'll walk step-by-step through transformational work designed to set you on a trajectory for an incredible marriage full of connection, intimacy, and Love.​​​
What this experience looks and feels like
Together, we will:​
- Uncover the “why, how, and what” of relational living — and the exact steps to embody it in daily life
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- Demystify the dynamics and intricacies of your unique partnership that keep you from greater connection
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-Discover and befriend the parts of you who, on a bad day, would rather fight, withdrawal, stonewall, complain, control or fix when your partner does that thing
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- Learn the concrete relational skills that make repair, accountability, and intimacy possible
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- Experience relational skills from the inside out in a supportive environment with direct, hands-on coaching so you can risk, repair, and evolve in real time
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- Build the foundation that will enable every future conversation — from money to parenting to sex and everything in between
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The practical 'what' is still under construction.
Sign up below and I'll reach out when it's ready!
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This experience is for those who...

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Are dating seriously, engaged, discerning lifelong partnership or just-married (5 years or less)
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Want an incredible marriage, not just a wedding
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Value growth, consciousness, and emotional depth
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Are willing to look at themselves, not just their partner
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Would rather consciously cultivate now than repair heartache later
It would be an honor to guide you.

I’ve spent 15+ years clearing the way for Love in my own life – and have trained in some of the most powerful, research-backed modalities for healing and transformation.​​


​My background and training also includes:
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Applied neurobiology
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Nervous system regulation (Certified in Somatic Experiencing)
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Parts work (like Internal Family Systems)
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Relational ecology (like attachment)
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism
I'm offering what my husband and I needed before marriage, not after.
We got married in 2020. Our 'premarital counseling' said we were compatible. And it's true — we are.
But we quickly discovered that, not only does compatibility not equip you to handle the shit that will hit the fan, it also doesn't equal a incredible marriage. It doesn't equal intimacy and connection.
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Let me say that again:
Compatibility does not create intimacy and connection.
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How you relate does.​

It wasn't until after we got married that we discovered true intimacy, authenticity, joy and connection is cultivated through relational living. It's not a by-product of compatibility.
And relational living takes skill.
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Now, thanks to our own journey, our marriage's baseline is incredible and it has only gotten better from there. ​​​​
More joy.
More fun.
More feeling known.
More magic.
More adventure.
More depth.
More contentment.
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More moving through conflict into greater connection instead of getting stuck and spinning our wheels in hard things, causing pain for ourselves and one another.
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Now I guide couples in their 1st year to their 30th+ year of marriage. They find me when they're hanging on by a thread.
And by that time, there is a LOT of healing and repair to do.
​My intention for this experience is to swim upstream, before the literally insane divorce rates, to offer pre-marriage folks the tools, skills and experience of relational living so that your marriage can baseline incredible and just gets better from there.
I believe baseline incredible should be normal for marriage. Let's make that true for yours, together.
COMING SOON.
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