
Clearing the Way is not a linear process — but it is coherent.
Here are some frequent wonderings
on the how and why of the work
Let's orient
WHAT DOES "RECEIVING LOVE"
ACTUALLY MEAN?
Receiving Love is not a belief or a mindset (though it impacts both).
It is an embodied way of being that expands endlessly over time.
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This embodied experience feels like the character of Love including connection, clarity and presence, just to name a few.​
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The truth is, you were designed to be embodied, ensouled and enearthed.
You were made to be embedded in relationship — with yourself, others, Nature and Spirit.
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You just need the proper conditions for it to happen naturally.
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A Receiving Journey creates the necessary conditions, purposely guiding you through disconnection and into reconnection.
WHAT APPROACH DO WE TAKE TO
CLEAR THE WAY?
Clearing the Way is a consilient, embodied approach.
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Consilience simply means we draw wisdom from multiple ways of knowing — science, spirituality, relationship, and lived experience — to understand the whole human system.
Rather than using one modality, this work weaves together some of the most impactful approaches that actually help people move through disconnection into reconnection.
WHAT MODALITIES CAN WE USE
TO CLEAR THE WAY?
Somatic
Experiencing®
Parts Work
The Safe & Sound Protocol
Interpersonal Neurobiology
Relational Life Therapy
Splankna
WHAT ROLE DO I PLAY IN THE JOURNEY?
I am a guide — think sherpa or trail guide.
I walk alongside you, helping you remember the path back Home,
while still on the journey myself.
HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT THAN THERAPY?
This work is not therapy, and I am not a licensed therapist.
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Therapy is carried out by licensed professional who typically focuses on assessing, diagnosing, treating, or managing psychological symptoms and disorders such as depression or anxiety.
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As a Relationship Restoration Guide, I work with couples and individuals who desire to receive more Love. Together, focus on:
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Restoring connection
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Resolving survival patterns stored in the nervous system
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Deepening your capacity to receive Love
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Strengthen your relationships with yourself, others, Nature and Spirit
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Many people engage in this work alongside therapy. Others come when therapy hasn't reached the deeper, embodied layers they know are present.
HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS IS FOR ME?
This work is for individuals and couples who:
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feel disconnected but can sense there’s more
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are tired of trying harder
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want depth without pathology
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value both science and Spirit
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are ready to engage their body, not just their mind​
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A number of my clients have also said something like, "I've tried all the things — therapy, plant medicine, meditation, etc. — and this is different."
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IMO - There is a difference between 'healing' and going Home.
WHAT IF I'M NOT 'SPIRITUAL'?
100% okay. ​​​
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You don't need to believe anything specific, perform, or arrive anywhere.
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I trust your journey and aim to meet you where you're at without agenda.
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What doesn't change is the truth that you are designed to receive Love and, if that's what you want, this work can help create the conditions for it.
IS THIS WORK STRUCTURED OR INTUATIVE?
Both.
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From a neurobiological perspective, we work with the energy and informational flow of your body/brain. Like flowing with the river vs paddling upstream.
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From a cosmological and relational perspective, there is a clear arc: connection --> disconnection --> reconnection
Within that arc, we follow what your body, relationships and life are revealing in real time.
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