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CONFLICT-TO-CONNECTION
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The Truth about Conflict
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Wouldn't it be nice if conflict made your relationship better, not worse?
You'd move through conflict in 15-20 minutes...
And feel even closer than when it started.
Your relationship would be full of ease, joy and connection, not in spite of conflict but because of it.
But that's not what happens in 99% of couples.
When it comes to conflict, most couples...
Think conflict shouldn't happen
"If we were meant to be then we wouldn't fight this much."
Feel like something is inherently wrong
With themselves, their partner or their relationship
Walk around on eggshells
Trying to avoid each other's triggers or conflict in general
Feel exhausted, frustrated and empty
Impacting other areas of life like family, work & wellbeing
Loop over and over in the same fight
Same sh*t, different day, ya know what I mean?
Focus on their partner's 'problems'
And miss the gift hidden in the storm
Most couples treat conflict as problem,
not a pathway but the truth is...
Conflict isn't actually the problem.
In fact, it's essential.
Even the research shows it. Psychologist and researcher, Dr. Ed Tronick found that...
Relationships can be misattuned, disconnected and in conflict up to 70% of the time and still be strong, stable and life-giving so long as they reliably know their way back to connection.
Based on his research, it's connection AND conflict build intimacy, resilience and trust.
Which means conflict itself isn’t the problem. It’s essential.
So the question was never, "how do I STOP the fighting?"
The REAL question is...
How do you move through conflict and feel closer and more connected than ever before?
Y'all may be struggling.
Maybe you're white knuckling it 'for the kids' or because breaking up would be 'too messy'
Because the good times are genuinely wonderful but each time you go through yet another conflict, you wonder if your relationship is a mistake.
"If I was with the 'right' person, we wouldn't fight so much."
That's when people usually find me and my work.
And I know you don't want to break up but you also can't keep going like this.
Welcome to:
Conflict-To-Connection
A comprehensive online training that walks couples through a 3-step process to turn conflict into a path to connection
It's your map for moving through conflict and into a baseline incredible marriage
- one full of ease, trust and connection - that gets even better from there.
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It's the same map that took us from feeling
like marriage was a mistake to our own version of baseline incredible.
My husband and I love each other deeply but man, we can fight.
I'd want more connection. He'd shut down. I'd get loud. He'd shut down more. I'd get even louder until, eventually, I'd shut down too. And round and round we'd go.
We used to go at it for 4-5 days at a time, sometimes even longer.
Sound familiar?
At that point, we didn't have a map so we fumbled around, hurting ourselves and each other in the process.
Then we learned how to move though conflict and it was a game changer.
Based on our transformation and my work with couples, I created the map we needed from the start.
I'm Leah Dawang.
I'm a Relationship Restoration Guide and after nearly 20 years of my own relational journey including world renown training & tracking hundreds of conflicts...
I developed a holistic map designed to predictably and reliably move y'all through conflict and into connection so that you can have the relationship you long for.
This journey weaves together:
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Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
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Somatic Experiencing (SE)
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Parts work / Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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Nervous system regulation
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Applied neurobiology
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Attachment and relational ecology
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism
It would be an honor to guide y'all.
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What happens when you use conflict as a path to connection?
You'll bring up the real life things and feel like you’re on the same team, finding real solutions to life’s challenges.
And instead of avoiding or getting stuck, you'll experience...
More ease.
More joy.
More fun.
More feeling understood.
More magic.
More adventure.
More depth.
And when you do have conflict, you'll move through it within 15-20 minutes and feel even more connected than before it started.
You'll get tired of hearing,
"You're such a great couple!" ;)
Connection feels like...
Feeling seen and cared for even in the hard things
Focusing on your passions and purpose rather than fighting
More ease and peace, like there is space for you in your relationship
Overflowing with Love and giving it away to others
Talking about real life things that matter with ease
Laughing! Couples always talk about laughing more :)
When you know your way through conflict, you can have as much of it as you want.
In the words of my clients:
I couldn't have dreamt how good it was going to get.
It is a gift to be living my life this way now.
- Britta H.
[CTW] changed my inner/outer life...I have safety in my nervous system that I had no idea was missing. Which clogged me from Love. I feel like I have been transformed by Love, now I can receive Love, give love away!! It’s changed my marriage. I’m no longer a critic, hurting his and my heart. I’m not afraid to connect even deeper than before. I can honestly say I know it was so worth EVERYTHING that I put into it.
- Suzi C.
Leah's approach is full of groundedness, peace, hope...she is a gentle trail guide for the foggy areas we may be afraid to face but must.
- Britt S.
It has been an amazing process that’s given me insight into my decision making, empowered me to clear my internal paradoxes and allow Love to debunk the lies that I’ve believed for
most of my life.
- Kevin O.
...I now live life with a more open heart at the level of my nervous system—not just as a concept...I now have a new baseline, a new normal. It feels like I've unlocked a new level of being: the aliveness that comes from living with an open heart while also taking care of myself
- Cristina S.
"After working with three couples therapists without much success, working with Clear The Way has been incredibly transformative for my relationship...I would highly recommend working with her if you want to build a stronger, more connected relationship with your partner."
- Feyisayo G.
I feel more healed and whole than I have in my entire life. For the first time, I'm not striving for anything. I can just be and know that, in my being, I am enough and I am loved.
- Gabrielle L.
This practice gives us the resources to extend compassion and grace to ourselves, and release the tension that’s holding us back from receiving Love.
- Alisha A.
Conflict-to-Connection in 3 steps:
STEP 1: Vison cast
Most people think diving straight into what needs adjusting is what heals.
Not true. That only makes you more overwhelmed, more frustrated, more defensive.
Instead, you need to agree on where you're going. And just how good you want your relationship to be.
Together, we'll cast a vision for your baseline incredible relationship through a very specific process to make it come alive for your brain and body.
So you always have a north star for the journey.
STEP 2: Map the patterns
All relationships have conflict patterns and, if you don't know what they are, they will absolutely keep you from baseline incredible.
In this step, we create a multi-dimensional map to discover the root causes of your patterns drawing from:
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Relational Life Therapy (RLT) to shift relational dynamics and increase intimacy
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Somatic Experiencing® (SE) to track the nervous system
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) to befriend protective parts
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Attachment work to restore relational connection
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Neurobiology to work with your body/brain, not against it
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism to relate to and be guided by the big Big (i.e. God, the Universe, Creator, Great Mystery, Love)
We identify the root of why you're stuck in conflict so you can stop guessing and blaming.
STEP 3: The 7 R's of Relating
A simple, clear, step-by-step process to move you though conflict without avoiding or getting stuck in it.
Because conflict and disconnection is essential to our evolution and growth, both as individuals and a couple.
The 7 R's of Relating are designed to work with your brain, body and attachment systems, rather than against them to transform your conflict into a portal - a doorway - back to connection.
And then equip you with tools and skills to deepen your relationship so that incredible becomes your new norm - your baseline - and gets even better from there.
So that you can spend less time fighting and more time Loving.
Along your journey, you'll get...
A crystal clear vision for your baseline incredible relationship
Guidance from someone who knows the way and is on the journey with you, not above you
Exact maps of your relational patterns that keep you from the relationship you want
Take-with-you pocket guides so you always know what to do next.
The 7 R's of Relating, a reliable, step-by-step path through conflict and back into connection
Skills you'll need to cultivate a baseline incredible relationship that gets even better from there
What's included:
Seven training modules you can use immediately
Lifetime access to highly-practical and motivating videos to walk you through PRECISE strategies to move you through conflict and into connection.
Conflict-to-Connection exercises
Practical step-by-step PDFs, exercises and pocket guides so you can actually implement and embody everything you've learned in the course.
One of my favorite moments is when a couple says
“We didn’t know it could be this good!”
and I say, “And it can get even better.”
And I want that for y'all and this is your path to get there.
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