This is your blueprint to prepare for a
baseline incredible marriage.
It's the same map that took us from feeling
like marriage was a mistake to our own
baseline incredible relationship.
I wish we had it from the start.
Our premarital counselor said we're compatible. And it's true — we are.
But my husband and I quickly discovered that compatibility does not equip you to handle the shit that will hit the fan.
We were 'compatible' and still got trapped in constant conflict...
And we almost completely missed out on an incredible marriage.
Because compatibility does not
equal connection.
Now, after nearly two decades of my own relational journey, a transformed marriage, a ton of training and working with dozens of people...
I've developed a holistic process, unique to anything you've heard of or tried before.
It predictably and reliably moves you through conflict, rather than avoiding or getting stuck...
So that you can have the marriage y'all dream of.
One that's baseline incredible and gets even better from there.
More joy.
More fun.
More feeling understood.
More magic.
More adventure.
More depth.
More ease.
More Love.
I 1000% believe baseline incredible should be normal for relationships and marriage. Let's make that true for yours, together.
You'll get tired of hearing,
"You're such a great couple"
thanks to this blueprint ;)
The 4 Step Process:
STEP 1: Vison cast your unique baseline incredible
Most people think focusing on what needs adjusting is what heals.
They are wrong.
Instead, you need to agree on where you're going.
And just how good you want it to be.
And you can't just think about it.
You have to go through a very specific process to make it come alive.
That way y'all always have a north star for your journey.
STEP 2: Create a multi-dimensional map of your relationship's conflict patterns
No matter how happily engaged you are, all relationships have conflict patterns and, if you don't know what they are, they will keep you from baseline incredible.
In this step, we discover the root causes of your patterns using:
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Relational Life Therapy (RLT) to shift relational dynamics and increase intimacy
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Somatic Experiencing® (SE) to track the nervous system
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) to befriend protective parts
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Attachment work to restore relational connection
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Neurobiology to work with your body/brain, not against it
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Nature-guided living to heal alongside the Living world with whom we are interconnected with
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism to relate to and be guided by the big Big (i.e. God, the Universe, Creator, Great Mystery, Love)
STEP 3: The 7 R's of Relating
In this step, you get a simple, clear, step-by-step process that is proven to move you though conflict without avoiding or getting stuck in it.
Because conflict and disconnection is not only inevitable in marriage but essential.
It's essential to our evolution and growth, both as individuals and a couple but if you don't know how to move through it, then it just sucks.
The 7 R's of Relating work with your neurobiological and attachment systems, rather than against them and guides you through the exact steps and sequence you need to transform your conflict into a portal - a doorway - back to connection.
So that you spend your marriage loving, not fighting ;)
STEP 4: Make your marriage better and better
After you have a predictable and reliable map to navigate through disconnection and into reconnection, your marriage can be as good as you want it to be.
So our last step is to equip you with tools and skills to amplify and deepen your baseline incredible marriage so that it becomes your new norm - your baseline - and gets even better from there.
One of my favorite moments when a couple says “We didn’t know it could be this good!”
and I say, “And it can get even better.”
By the end of your journey, you'll have
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A crystal clear understanding of your baseline incredible marriage
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Exact maps of your relationship patterns that keep you from what you want
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A repeatable, step-by-step path through conflict and back into reconnection that makes you feel even more connected than when you started
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Everything you need to make your baseline incredible marriage even better and better and better
It would be an honor to guide you.
I’ve spent nearly 20 years clearing the way for Love in my own life.
And have trained in some of the most powerful, research-backed modalities for healing and transformation.
This course weaves together the very best of what I’ve learned for a baseline incredible marriage blueprint including:
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Nervous system regulation
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Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
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Somatic Experiencing (SE)
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) / Parts work
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Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) / tapping
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Attachment theory
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Interpersonal Neurobiology
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism
What you get
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12 months unlimited access to an in-depth training platform
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Resources that lay out the step-by-step of creating a baseline incredible marriage
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Full library of practical and tangible templates that make the journey clear and simple
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Pocket guides for daily life when you think, "Now, how do I...?"
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1 year unlimited access
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