Your relationship can have a new baseline.
More clarity, less chaos
More freedom, less obligation
More peace, less dread
More ease, less need for control
More groundedness, less overwhelm
More joy, less concern
More connection, less loneliness
This is your map for a baseline incredible relationship.
It's the same map that transformed us from feeling
like marriage was a mistake to our own a
baseline incredible relationship.
I wish we had it from the start.
Our premarital counselor said we're compatible. And it's true — we are.
But my husband and I quickly discovered that compatibility does not equip you to handle the shit that will hit the fan.
We were 'compatible' and still got trapped in constant conflict...
And we almost completely missed out on an incredible marriage.
Because compatibility does not
equal connection.
Now, after nearly two decades of my own relational journey, a transformed marriage, a ton of training and working with dozens of people...
I've developed a holistic process, unique to anything you've heard of or tried before.
It's the exact map I used to transform my marriage and it predictably and reliably moves you through conflict, rather than avoiding or getting stuck...
So that you can have the marriage you long for.
One that's baseline incredible and gets even better from there.
More joy.
More fun.
More feeling understood.
More magic.
More adventure.
More depth.
More ease.
I 1000% believe baseline incredible should be normal for relationships and marriage. Let's make that true for yours, together.
The 4 Step Process:
STEP 1: Vison cast your unique baseline incredible
Most people think diving straight into the shit is what heals.
They are wrong.
That only makes you more overwhelmed, more frustrated, more defensive.
Instead, you need to agree on where you're going.
And just how good you want it to be.
And you can't just think about it.
You have to go through a very specific process to make it come alive.
That way y'all always have a north star for your journey.
STEP 2: Create a multi-dimensional map of your relationship's patterns drawing from:
All relationships have conflict patterns and, if you don't know what they are, they will keep you from baseline incredible.
In this step, we discover the root causes of your patterns using:
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Relational Life Therapy (RLT) to shift relational dynamics and increase intimacy
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Somatic Experiencing® (SE) to track the nervous system
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) to befriend protective parts
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Attachment work to restore relational connection
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Neurobiology to work with your body/brain, not against it
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Nature-guided living to heal alongside the Living world with whom we are interconnected with
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism to relate to and be guided by the big Big (i.e. God, the Universe, Creator, Great Mystery, Love)
We identify the root of why you're stuck in conflict so you can stop guessing and blaming.
STEP 3: The 7 R's of Relating
In this step, you get a simple, clear, step-by-step process that is proven to move you though conflict without avoiding or getting stuck in it.
Because conflict and disconnection is not only inevitable in relationship but essential.
It's essential to our evolution and growth, both as individuals and a couple but if you don't know how to move through it, then it just sucks.
The 7 R's of Relating work with your neurobiological and attachment systems, rather than against them and guides you through the exact steps and sequence you need to transform your conflict into a portal - a doorway - back to connection.
So that you can spend less time fighting
and more time Loving.
STEP 4: Make your relationship better and better
After you have a predictable and reliable map to navigate through disconnection and into reconnection, your relationship can be as good as you want it to be.
So our last step is to equip you with tools and skills to amplify and deepen your baseline incredible relationship so that it becomes your new norm - your baseline - and gets even better from there.
By the end of your journey, you'll have
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A crystal clear understanding of your baseline incredible relationship
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Exact maps of your relationship patterns that keep you from what you want
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A repeatable, step-by-step path through conflict and back into reconnection that makes you feel even more connected than when you started
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Everything you need to make your baseline incredible relationship even better and better and better
It would be an honor to guide you.
I’ve spent nearly 20 years clearing the way for Love in my own life.
And have trained in some of the most powerful, research-backed modalities for healing and transformation.
This course weaves together the very best of what I’ve learned — not as techniques to apply, but as living map back Home:
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Applied neurobiology (like memory reconsolidation)
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Nervous system regulation (like Polyvagal Theory and Somatic Experiencing)
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Parts work (like IFS)
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Relational ecology (like Relational Life Therapy and attachment)
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Grounded spirituality and mysticism
What you get
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12 months unlimited access to an in-depth training platform
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Resources that lays out step-by-step what you need to do to save your marriage and make it baseline incredible
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Full library of practical and tangible templates that make the journey clear and simple
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Pocket Guides for daily life when you think, "Now, how do I...?"
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1 year unlimited access
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